Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Purging

We have been busy getting our house ready to put on the market, and I am LOVING how organized my house is becoming. I think everyone should pretend to move every two or three years, it's amazing what you realize you don't need. One thing that has been surprisingly cathartic is "getting rid of the autism." I have been donating book after book, worksheets, ABA stuff, all the stuff I "needed" to help me teach my son, it's all going. I of course will keep a few things, most of it was very expensive which makes me all the more happy to give it away. Visual schedules, PECS cards and especially books about "recovery" those I throw away, I don't even want to give those away, and it is like a little happy dance every time I see the trash truck. I have shredded stacks and stacks of IEP sh!@, and daily data sheets, depicting exactly how many bites my son was able to take out of a cookie....gone.... gone .... gone. Everyone telling me how it would be, how to get through, how to teach, how I should be, and what I should sacrifice to get it... good bye. We have found our way, and I know my own strength now, I know what my children need, it's time to move on.

3 comments:

Cassi said...

I am SO happy for you! You are incredibly strong and inspiring! And I agree that pretending to move or moving is an absolute necessity to control the clutter. :)

Cheryl said...

Hi.. We may "know" each other from the albinism board, or NOAH.. My son's name is Cash, who also has Albinism, and Autism. I am SO glad I stumbled across your blog! My son will be 4 in June. I just read many of your inserts, and I felt like I was reading alot of my own thoughts! I will come by from time to time and comment. I have a blog on Xanga, but it is private to non-members.

Mama Deb said...

If there was a 'like' button, I'd press it right now.

I think I'm pretty close to this point. It's not the easiest to get to, but it's necessary.

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